Categoría: Acogida y Adopción

The Crutcher Family

Yes, Yes, and Yes Again

The journey of adoption holds many uncertainties but with the right support, the Crutchers are equipped to meet their children's needs.

“Children in the foster care system have experienced trauma,” ACH Foster Care and Adoption Specialist Cheryl Donovan explains. “It is a painful journey for them, but the difference adoption makes in their lives is beyond measure. They are wanted, are given another chance at having a childhood, and have opportunities for the future.”

Adoption was always a part of the Crutcher family plan. Heather and Dave went to grade school together, but it wasn’t until 28 years later that they reconnected, fell in love, and got married. With no children of their own, they opened their hearts to earnestly seek out and care for other children without families. They wanted to provide a safe and stable home for vulnerable kids that needed support.

“We started researching and looking for an adoption agency. We selected ACH because they’re well established with a great history.”

-- Heather Crutcher

The Crutchers began the process of gaining licensure for a matched adoption in 2020. There was paperwork to be filled out, information to file, and training courses to take. Many of their meetings and trainings were held online due to COVID, but an ACH Foster Care and Adoption Specialist remained alongside to conquer the in-depth process together.

They knew the journey could be long and were ready to endure the challenges. The Crutchers remained persistent and eventually everything was approved and finalized—they were licensed for adoption the week of Christmas! Heather and Dave were ready to find their match and provide children with a forever home.

Heather and Dave said ‘Yes’ and never looked back

Heather and Dave always knew they wanted to adopt a sibling group. They each have siblings of their own and enjoyed having a full house and growing up with “automatic friends.” Heather and Dave also recognized that adoption for a child, as exciting as it is, is also difficult. They wanted the child they adopted to have someone else in the home who they were already bonded with to transition and grow up with.

They were notified about three sweet sisters, Abbey, Emma, and Ava, ages 5-7, in need of a forever family.  “Our hearts were drawn to them and we said yes. But our story is a little unique. With our girls, it wasn’t just one immediate ‘yes’ and we were matched,” Heather recalls. After Heather and Dave’s initial ‘yes’ to pursuing adoption of Abbey, Emma, and Ava, they received another email that explained two of the girls have DiGeorge syndrome.

DiGeorge syndrome occurs when a small part of a chromosome is missing and can result in the poor development of several body systems1. More extreme cases included heart defects, poor immune system function, a cleft palate, low levels of calcium in the blood and delayed development with behavioral and emotional problems. The symptoms and treatment would vary. The Cruchers wouldn’t immediately know what kind of medical attention the girls would need throughout their lives because of their medical condition.

The Crutchers were unfamiliar with DiGeorge syndrome, but what they did know was there was no way they could back down from these girls now. Heather shares, “We prepared our hearts for what it could mean raising girls with DiGeorge, we were willing to go beyond what was expected, and committed to saying ‘yes’ for our girls, again.” Heather and Dave had not yet met the girls, but already their hearts were bursting for them.

They never doubted that the girls were meant to be with them

The Crutchers were matched with the girls in September of 2021 and their formal names as Crutchers would become Abigail, Emmaline, and Ava Grace. Heather and Dave were patient: They never doubted Abigail, Emmaline, and Ava Grace were meant to be with them. They were joyful and gracious through each bump in the road because they were confident the day would soon come when they would finally welcome the girls home forever.

It wasn’t until the end of January 2022 that Heather and Dave first met the girls in San Antonio. They were intent on bonding and played a lot that weekend to get to know each other. The next step was for the girls to visit Heather and Dave and stay with them at their home in North Richland Hills. At this time, an epic snowstorm hit, and all travel was canceled. What was supposed to be a 4-day visit turned into a 24-hour stay. The girls flew from San Antonio on Monday and left Tuesday.

Heather wasn’t upset or bitter when she recalled the delays and changes, she was just thankful the girls were able to visit at all. Even seeing them for just one day was all she could hope for. Again, they played and laughed, a lot! The goodbye was even harder than before. “It was heart-wrenching saying goodbye,” Heather confessed. Yet there was great hope knowing this would not be the end of their story.

Now with a part of their hearts with the girls, they couldn’t wait for placement day. Heather and Dave made one more visit to see the girls, bonded even more, and learned each other’s personalities even better. “When it was time to say goodbye there were a lot of tears from all of us. The girls didn’t want to leave, and we didn’t want to leave. It was heartwarming. The bonding had already started which was an amazing feeling.” This goodbye was a little different. They knew the next time they would see the girls in person would be when they came to live with them forever. There was an eagerness for what was to come.

In March, the girls officially moved in!

ACH helps provide the resources for the unexpected journey ahead

“ACH helped us fill our toolbox for the unknowns that come with adoption, and we felt more prepared to welcome home our girls,” Heather shares.

There can be many unknowns that await adoption parents. Each child is unique and it can’t be predicted how past experiences and traumas will affect them. ACH is present to help parents feel prepared and supported throughout the transition. The Crutchers were no exception.

Heather recalls the early weeks of their transition, “All the things they train us for that could happen, I feel like we experienced in the first 6 weeks of the girls’ transition.” As developmental delays resulting from their past trauma became more apparent, they were intent on making playtime more educational. New discipline techniques needed to be adjusted as Heather and Dave discovered areas the girls may not have had attention in before.

“A sense of belonging is crucial for all of us. A forever family is the greatest blessing of all time.”

-- Cheryl Donovan
ACH Foster Care and Adoption Specialist

Some of the techniques they found helpful and continue to use today come from the Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI®) training taught by the ACH team. Heather and Dave try to clearly communicate expectations to the girls, prepare them for what’s coming next, and offer choices to empower the girls. “This has made a huge difference in how we can care for them,” Heather shares.

In addition to two of the girls having a mild form of DiGeorge syndrome, Heather and Dave discovered that the girls had also experienced a high level of medical neglect in their past that now required an increased amount of attention. This didn’t stop Heather and Dave’s love. They were committed to giving fully of themselves to Abigail, Emmaline, and Ava Grace through their transition into a new family and home. Though at times difficult and trying, they never gave up, lost hope, or doubted these girls were meant to be with them.

Cheryl shares, “The Crutchers gave them a normal life with family outings, church attendance, and activities. They were committed to these children.” Heather and Dave established regular rhythms for the girls including summer activity classes at The Little Gym®, church on Sundays, regular visits to Play Street Museum, and letting Abbey, Emma, and Ava just be kids.

The Crutchers couldn’t imagine their family any other way

Walking through this journey with ACH, Heather and Dave were connected to a community of other adoptive parents and staff ready to help with any need. Heather is thankful for the relationships she made along with way. “ACH brought us a lot of connections and relationships with other couples either going through the same thing or wanting to be on the same journey as us,” she says. “We never felt alone throughout the process.” These couples have remained a support and source of encouragement for Heather and Dave. They can reach out to these families to ask for advice, to relate with, and to share experiences.

Heather encourages, “It’s a wild ride at first, but buckle down. You don’t know the curveballs you’re going to get, but you will find what’s normal for your family. You really just have to be advocates for your kids.”

Heather wondered if they had been too afraid of the “unknowns,” yet one thing she has no regrets about is saying “yes” to their girls. Abigail, Emmaline, and Ava Grace have changed their lives for the better. They are loving, affectionate, and full of so much hope and joy. Their smiles are sure to brighten anyone’s day.

“A sense of belonging is crucial for all of us,” adds ACH’s Cheryl Donovan. “A forever family is the greatest blessing of all time.”

There are still many unknowns Heather and Dave are patiently waiting to discover, but they are better equipped, and not alone, on their amazing journey.

Ybanez Family

"It Never Happens This Way"

A touching story of adoption with a unique twist. With open and eager hearts, the Ybanez Family remains faithful to the process and continues to place each child’s needs above their own desires.

College sweethearts, Matt and Aimee, have always dreamed about adoption. “It’s always been a part of our family plan,” Aimee shares. Fifteen years into their marriage and two biological children later, it was time they got serious about it. Their kids were now at the age to understand what adoption is and be a part of the discussion. This would be a family decision and their girls, Keira and Micah “were enthusiastically on board!”

The Ybanez family jumped right into the adoption process. After extensive research, they found ACH Child and Family Services and loved that we work locally with the Department of Family Protective Services to care for children in the community.

They were showered in support from the very beginning. “Going into it, we were a little overwhelmed with the volume of items to complete,” said Aimee, “but ACH was great about keeping it organized and providing us options.” In just 8 weeks from the start of their training, they were officially licensed for matched adoption!

ACH is there, every step of the way

Lizbeth Bryant, Foster Care and Adoption Supervisor, was happy to walk this journey with Matt, Aimee, and their girls. She was ready to “fill their toolbelt” with all they’d need throughout this process – support groups, training classes, and frequent check-ins.

Finally licensed, the Ybanez family did not hold back. They eagerly threw themselves into every part of the adoption process, saying “yes” as a family and ready to provide a child a safe home.

They agreed to help children that needed temporary respite care as they waited to be matched with a child to adopt. Short-term respite foster care is when one family temporarily cares for another family’s foster children for various reasons. The Ybanez Family opened their home and hearts to many children. They never held back the love and care they had to offer a child in need. Matt and Aimee recall “accepting every respite request that came through – from an infant in double leg casts all the way up to a 12-year-old girl who stayed with us for almost two weeks.”

It was during this time of welcoming many children in and out of their home that they met Jenny.* After a trial run and a short weekend stay, they became the ‘go-to’ respite family for Jenny. During this time, Matt, Aimee, Keira, and Micah fell in love with Jenny.

From "matched adoption" to "foster to adopt"

Jenny was a 3-year-old girl whose case was still in process, and a safe permanent placement was still being determined for her. At the time, Jenny was living with a foster family that would later decide they would not be able to adopt her. The care team that surrounded Jenny then needed to search for a new foster family to take her in for the remainder of her case who could also be an adoption possibility.

Knowing Jenny would be in a safe and loving environment is all they truly sought.

Since the Ybanez family had already begun building a relationship with Jenny during multiple respite stays, they were being considered as a possible foster family and adoption match. First, the Ybanez family needed to change their adoption licensing from “match adoption” to also include “foster to adopt”. This was a major decision. Matt and Aimee never imagined they would foster, yet they had no doubts. They loved Jenny and were ready to welcome her into their family. The Ybanez family moved forward with the licensing change so they could become Jenny’s foster care family with the hope and possibility of adopting her.

It was soon looking like the decision on Jenny’s case would be that her biological mother’s rights were going to be terminated. The hearing was in just two weeks and the Ybanez family would foster Jenny during that time. Matt, Aimee, Keira, and Micah would go about their days and welcome Jenny with this anticipated plan in mind.

Yet the process continued. Meetings got delayed, extensions were given, and the timing is usually never as you’d expect. Jenny’s biological mother was given an extension in hopes of family reunification. In this new limbo, Jenny stayed with the Ybanez family for months while her case continued, only now the Ybanez family felt a little unsure how to prepare for the unknown outcome.

Protecting Children and Preserving Families

The Ybanez family remained supportive of Jenny’s biological mother throughout the entire process. Knowing Jenny would be in a safe and loving environment is all they truly sought. As they cared for Jenny, ACH remained there to offer the Ybanez family support and guidance along the way. They were faced to now navigate such conflicting emotions. They had such a deep desire to permanently bring Jenny home and knew the warm and tender care they would offer her.

At the same time, they had such a softness and hope for Jenny’s mom and the reunited family they could be. They never ceased to maintain Jenny’s best interest at the heart of each decision, no matter how joyful or painful it may be. 

How can you truly prepare for the unexpected? Being present and available is sometimes all you can do. Throughout this time, Aimee says, “Before we partnered with ACH we truly did not understand how much support and partnership there is, which is such a blessing. There is no shortage of support at ACH.” The Ybanez family felt more prepared to meet Jenny in her situation and care not only for Jenny but for their entire family. Jenny’s biological mother’s rights were soon reinstated and she was granted permanency. The best home now for Jenny was being reunited with her mom. 

It's what's best for the child that's important

The Ybanez family learned to walk not only with open hearts but open hands as well. While they never wavered from putting the needs of the child first, they fully realize how precious it is to preserve families. They have uniquely experienced the delight and heartache that comes with living so fiercely and boldly in love.

"There is no shortage of support at ACH."

-- Aimee Ybanez

ACH’s Lizbeth has seen their faithfulness to Jenny and is grateful to walk alongside the Ybanez family through this emotional journey. They may not have been able to welcome Jenny permanently into their home, but their hearts were open to far more than they thought capable.

Thanks to their eldest, Keira, they have pursued and maintained contact with Jenny and her mother. Aimee confesses, “honestly, we may never have gathered the strength to reach out that first time after she’d gone home if it hadn’t been for Keira.” Keira wanted to submit her drawing of Jenny into an art contest but wanted to ask her mom for permission first. Aimee pushed through her own grief to reach out.

“At first, we had no idea what an ongoing relationship with Jenny or her mom was supposed to look like. Perhaps we still don’t – there’s no template for it, but we’re doing our best to figure it out as we go.” They find themselves a part of something greater than themselves and have rallied behind a mom and joined her team to care for her sweet daughter.

Aimee shares, “We had never imagined we would foster, let alone see a child go back to her biological mom, and yet, there is something pretty amazing that happens when you can be a part of a larger support system for both child and parent.”

The Ybanez family is still patiently waiting to permanently welcome home a fifth member of their family. They remain hopeful and excited for when that day comes. 


*Name changed to protect privacy.

Adopción y cuidado de crianza

Every year hundreds of children in our area are removed from their biological caregivers due to abuse or neglect. And every year ACH Child and Family Services place many of them into temporary foster care with kind and compassionate adults who have been thoroughly vetted and trained. When a child comes to us, an ACH foster and adoption specialist creates and implements an individualized Plan of Service, essentially a guide for the child’s anticipated service needs. Our professionals meet with each child at least once a month, more frequently as required. Learn more about ACH’s Foster Care and Adoption Program.

Adoption Thoughts from an Adult Adoptee

Katie Reisor is a member of ACH’s Community Engagement team.

As an adoptee, I know firsthand how difficult it is to process the loss of identity one can feel after separation from their biological family. Even when a child is adopted as a baby, trauma can happen. Relinquishment is not biologically necessary, but sometimes the necessary step that took place. I personally work hard to advocate for all members of the adoption constellation (a term used to describe the members of the adoption community such as adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive parents) because I believe despite the trauma- good work is happening and that the focus is adoptees. Adoption centers around them and they are worthy of amazing lives.

Ways to advocate for adoptees

Listen to their stories. Adoptees, just like me, are using their social media platforms, their voices on podcasts, writing books, and starting up organizations to share about the realities of being an adopted child. Our stories matter and they are so diverse. I challenge you to go and dig into some of the amazing, amplified voices out there and to share them. We can learn so much from one another. Here are a few adoptees I follow on social media that I learn so much from: @therapyredeemed, @katiethekad, @adoptee2adoptionworker, and @hannahjmatthews to name a few

Realize that adoption/foster care is about them, not you. Sometimes we unintentionally place ourselves on a pedestal of saviorism. It’s good to check our intentions behind adopting/fostering and decide if we are doing something for ourselves or simply because a child needs a loving and safe home, and I can provide that. The truth is, it’s not about what we can do, it’s all about helping that child succeed in life. I dream of a world that is eradicated of the problem where children need homes, but the reality is there are so many kids who do. When we are looking to help, it’s a great reminder that this is all about those kids.

How hopeful adoptive parents can equip themselves to best care for an adopted child
  • If you are adopting, especially if internationally or transracially, you should be considering how to surround your child with their culture in your immediate circles.
  • What friends do you have that can be mentor figures in your child’s life?
  • What books and classes are you using to educate yourself on culture, trauma, RAD (Reactive Attachment Disorder), TBRI and other trauma informed care, and to hear from adult adoptees?
  • Are you in therapy to work through your trauma and quirks?
  • Are you capable of self-regulating in stressful moments? There are so many things to consider in preparation to adopt or foster, but also simply to grow as a person.
How we as an organization can help

Preservar las Familias While not always possible, preserving families is always the best option for a child. If we can equip families to succeed as healthy parents, we can keep a child in the environment that they know. We can keep that family from being another statistic of a broken home. We can help that child thrive in their biological family and with the identity they are already forming. While there are always situations that call for different strategies, I think it’s important for us to not get jaded by the difficult situations we have seen and still have hope that a family can find redemption with the right resources.

Proteger a Los Niños ACH helps equips hopeful foster families and adoptive parents with the tools for success. It never ceases to inspire me how many people are passionate about helping children in need. Every child deserves a loving home and people are excited about helping. However, you cannot just feel passionate about providing a home, you must be equipped to best care for a child.

We do that by making sure that our families who wish to open their homes are:  

  • Trauma informed
  • Asking how they plan to implement a child’s culture into their lives after adoption/fostering
  • Do they have people in their communities that will come alongside them and support their families?
  • Will they continue to fight for a child who is not adapting into their family and might even be lashing out behaviorally?
  • Are they willing to continue growing in education resources so that they can learn to be a safe space for kids?

I think we do a great job with these things at ACH, but there is always room to grow. Really focusing on setting our foster/adoption families up for success is vital.

Interested in fostering or adopting? Call 817.886.7140 or click below.

Every Child Deserves a Family

10 Years of Finding Forever Homes for Children in Need

In her decade spent at ACH, Foster Care & Adoption Director Stella Maggs has helped more than 500 children get adopted by safe and loving families.

Stella’s history with foster care and adoption goes all the way back to when she was a child in foster care. She and her two brothers were adopted as children.

“I want to help other children find a forever family and have the great experience that I had,” said Stella.

For more than 25 years, Stella has made it her mission to find the best possible homes for children in foster care.

“Every child deserves a family that will stick with them through thick and thin,  to love on them and treat them like their own children because they should be their own children,” said Stella.

Even during a Pandemic, kids can't wait

When hurdles come their way, Stella and her team always put children first. When the COVID-19 pandemic hit, her team pivoted to make sure Foster and Adoptive parents were receiving their training and kids were not put on hold.

“Watching my staff turn on the dime and adjust was awesome,” said Stella. “No one blinked twice, they just jumped up and did whatever they needed to do to make sure our kids were safe, and our families were well taken care of.”

The pandemic also allowed Stella to spend more one-on-one time with her families. Even after 500 adoptions, Stella enjoys keeping up with each family and seeing how their children have grown over the years.

Stella remains close with many of the families, and one touched her heart in an amazing way. During her second year at ACH, she met a couple, who already had two biological children, that were eager to adopt a child. With doubts the family would be open to it, Stella asked if they would be interested in adopting a sibling group of four.

“I thought, ‘there’s no way they are going to take a sibling group of four.’ He called me the next day and he said, ‘Stella, we want to move forward with these kids. We really think they’re the ones for our family.’”

After several visits, and going through the adoption process, the couple adopted all four siblings.

“I presented all four siblings, thinking,  there is no way they would be interested in a sibling group of four, especially since they had two children already which would make them a family of eight;  but they jumped on it, and they have been wonderful advocates and parents for these children,” said Stella. “It has been amazing to watch them all grow and to see them grow as parents to these kids.”

A passion to serve

“Stella came to ACH in 2011 as the Adoption Program Manager and has continued to invest in and build our foster care and adoption program,” said Melissa Opheim, ACH Chief Operating Officer.

“If you ever talk with Stella about adoption, you can immediately see her passion and dedication to children and families and her love for what adoption means to so many of the children we serve, a family of their own.”

Dedicated to ensuring a child's safety

Stella also thinks of the parents who welcomed a young boy into their home who was diagnosed with cancer just months before his adoption was finalized.

“This family went through everything with him,” said Stella. “Bone cancer, multiple surgeries, all kinds of things to find something to help him.”

The family knew  the boy would not live long enough to have the adoption finalized, but they asked ACH and the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services if they could change his last name to their family’s name before he passed.

“They were committed to him from day one and it didn’t matter what anybody threw at them or what he went through, they were there,” said Stella. “That is the kind of family ACH recruits and trains. Families who will take care of a child no matter what.”

For Stella, the most rewarding part of her job is seeing children thrive with their new families, despite the trauma they have experienced. When she sees 500 adoptions and 500 children that have gone to a forever home, and have had a great life with their families, it’s priceless.

“To think you just had a small part of that, of placing a child with a family, feels great,” said Stella. “ “This is why I am so proud of my team because they are so dedicated to ensuring a child’s safety. To ensuring our children get a forever home or go back to a home that can now truly help this child grow into anything they want to.”

Stella feels the passion her team has is consistent with every program at ACH.

“Everyone in this organization has a passion for children, all the way from our CEO to our maintenance team, and it comes through in everything that we do.”

Cuidando a los niños de tu familia… ¿quiénes no son los tuyos?

El nuevo programa de ACH es una solución única que proporciona recursos muy necesarios para las familias de parentesco

Chantel Bedlington juega un papel vital en ayudar a ACH Child and Family Services a crear un programa que cambiará las vidas de las familias que cuidan a sus familiares.  

Chantel, especialista en apoyo de Kinship Navigator de ACH, ha estado revisando datos de una encuesta voluntaria y conectándose con familias de parentesco, así como con organizaciones que sirven a familias de parentesco para construir una red de recursos, educación y apoyo para construir nuestro programa Kinship Navigator.

“El programa Kinship Navigator ayudará a las familias de parentesco con sus necesidades únicas y las conectará con recursos muy necesarios, grupos de apoyo, así como asistencia financiera, asistencia legal y más”, dijo Chantel.

ACH es una de las cuatro organizaciones seleccionadas por el Departamento de Servicios para la Familia y de Protección de Texas para desarrollar e implementar un programa para servir a los parientes cuidadores.

Debido a la amplia gama de programas de ACH que ayudan a los niños y las familias, Chantel ha podido ayudar a muchas familias de parentesco incluso antes de que se inicie el programa. Las familias de parentesco han podido utilizar AIRE, La línea directa de crisis bilingüe 24/7 de ACH, Ayuda Real para la Vida Real, que ofrece asesoramiento gratuito para jóvenes y familias, y nuestro Conexiones de parentesco grupo de apoyo. El programa Kinship Navigator también se ha asociado con grupos de apoyo de Texas Grandparents Raising Grandchildren en el norte de Texas.

¿Qué es el cuidado por familiares?
Una familia de parentesco ocurre cuando una abuela, tía, tío o hermano está criando a un miembro de la familia. Las familias de parentesco también pueden incluir a los niños colocados con amigos cercanos de la familia, también conocidos como parientes ficticios. En cualquier caso, cuando se coloca a un niño con un miembro de la familia, es nuevo para ambos.
Cerca de casa

Chantel comprende las necesidades y luchas de los padres por parentesco porque ella misma es uno. Chantel y su esposo comenzaron a criar hijos parientes que solo habían conocido una vez antes de la colocación. También tiene dos hijos biológicos y un hijo adoptivo.

Hace dos años, Chantel recibió una llamada de los Servicios de Protección Infantil en Kansas diciendo que los hijos de la hermanastra de su esposo serían colocados en cuidado de crianza si un miembro de la familia no podía cuidarlos.

"¿Qué haces cuando recibes esa llamada?", Preguntó Chantel. "No quiero ser esa persona que se para frente a estos niños un día y que me pregunten: '¿Eres mi familia y no viniste?'"

Entonces, fueron. Chantel y su esposo empacaron su auto y se dirigieron a Kansas para recoger a los niños. Casi tan pronto como los niños estuvieron bajo el cuidado de Chantel, se enfrentó a la falta de apoyo y recursos para ayudar a sus hijos, ya que su caso del DFPS se cerró tan pronto como los recogió la familia.

Durante los últimos dos años desde la colocación, Chantel tuvo que luchar para que los niños tuvieran Medicaid y obtuvieran los recursos adecuados para sus necesidades críticas de salud. Tuvo que conseguir un abogado para obtener la tutela legal. Incluso lograr que los niños se matricularan en las escuelas de su vecindario fue una lucha.

"Tuve que luchar por todo", dijo Chantel.

Esta experiencia la llevó a ACH.

“Cuando vi este puesto en ACH, no necesariamente estaba buscando un nuevo trabajo”, dijo. “Yo estaba como, 'Wow, alguien tiene que hacer eso. Alguien tiene que ayudar a luchar por estas familias '”.

Chantel ha establecido sólidas relaciones con las familias de parentesco locales desde el comienzo del programa Kinship Navigator. Estas relaciones fueron extremadamente gratificantes y beneficiosas en su papel de madre por parentesco.

“Antes de comenzar a trabajar con ACH, no conocía a ningún otro pariente cuidador”, dijo Chantel. “Ha sido maravilloso conectarme con ellos y saber que estamos juntos en este viaje”.

Chantel Bedlington, especialista en soporte de ACH Kinship Navigator
Los servicios de parentesco de ACH profundizan más

Esa conexión es casi tan importante como la asistencia financiera y la asistencia legal para los padres por parentesco.

Muchos cuidadores familiares, especialmente aquellos que son abuelos, nuevamente tienen que criar a sus hijos durante una época en la que ninguno de sus amigos lo está. No tienen a nadie con quien relacionarse en sus vidas.

No solo eso, sino que muchos están lidiando con la culpa de las decisiones de sus hijos que llevaron a sus nietos a entrar a su cuidado. Es difícil para ellos no sentir vergüenza por las decisiones de sus hijos que los llevaron a cosas como la adicción o el encarcelamiento, lo que les hizo perder a sus hijos.

“Muchos de nuestros abuelos se sienten aislados por eso”, dijo Chantel. “Necesitan saber que las decisiones de sus hijos adultos no son culpa suya”.

La mayoría de las personas no se dan cuenta de que las familias de parentesco tienen necesidades únicas: están criando a los hijos de un miembro de la familia y experimentando las muchas emociones involucradas en eso. La dinámica familiar puede ser muy difícil de navegar para los niños y el cuidador. Muchos de los niños que ingresan al cuidado de familiares están lidiando con el trauma que experimentaron con sus padres. A menudo, aunque los niños van con la familia, no tienen relaciones existentes con la familia con la que se les envía a vivir, lo que puede ser traumatizante.

“Los padres de crianza y adoptivos tienen la ventaja de estar capacitados sobre el trauma, qué esperar y cómo ayudar a un niño que está perdiendo el control”, dijo Chantel. "Para las familias de parentesco, solo reciben una llamada".

Qué esperar cuando no estás esperando

Para combatir este problema común, Chantel ha comenzado a desarrollar una guía para ayudar a los padres por parentesco a navegar su nuevo rol: Qué esperar cuando no esperabas. Les enseñará a los padres cómo inscribir a los niños en la escuela, qué esperar en el proceso de licencia y cómo solicitar Medicaid. Convertirse en un padre adoptivo por parentesco con licencia ofrece beneficios como compensación financiera mensual y apoyo a largo plazo. Sin embargo, el programa Kinship Navigator está listo para ayudar a aquellos que no son elegibles o no están interesados en obtener una licencia. La guía también incluirá recomendaciones de artículos, podcasts y libros sobre cuidados informados por el parentesco y el trauma. 

Está previsto que el programa Kinship Navigator comience este otoño y beneficiará a las familias de parentesco en los condados de Tarrant, Parker, Palo Pinto, Johnson y Hill.

Si usted es un cuidador, un profesional legal, un trabajador de bienestar infantil, un educador o un agente de la ley y le gustaría participar para ayudarnos en nuestro proceso de planificación u obtener más información, regístrese por haciendo clic aquí.

ACH Child and Family Services celebra la adopción número 500

Randall y Nikki Emery le dieron la bienvenida a Everett a su hogar para siempre, lo que los convirtió en la adopción número 500 de ACH.
Una organización local sin fines de lucro centrada en la protección de los niños y la preservación de las familias celebra un hito histórico

FORT WORTH, Texas (19 de julio de 2021) - ACH Child and Family Services se complace en anunciar los 500th adopción. ACH atiende a niños desde la infancia hasta los 17 años que están bajo el cuidado del Departamento de Servicios para la Familia y de Protección de Texas (DFPS) con especial atención en la ubicación de grupos de hermanos y niños de cinco años en adelante, especialmente adolescentes.

“Si bien estamos orgullosos de anunciar este hito, reconocemos que aún queda mucho trabajo por hacer”, dice Lance Ortiz, Coordinador de Extensión de ACH. “Todos los días buscamos padres que abran sus corazones y hogares a los niños que lo merecen. Este trabajo es tan importante en nuestra capacidad de tener un impacto positivo en las vidas de los niños y adolescentes que más lo necesitan, así como en la comunidad de Fort Worth. Queremos seguir haciendo lo que podamos para proporcionar el apoyo y los recursos fundamentales que los niños necesitan para triunfar ".

Los Servicios para Niños y Familias de ACH continúan creando conciencia sobre el impacto y la importancia del cuidado de crianza. En 2020, había más de 9,000 niños en el norte de Texas que necesitaban cuidado de crianza.

“Los padres de crianza son importantes porque protegen a los niños y preservan a las familias”, dijo Ortiz. “Proporcionan hogares y corazones llenos de amor y compasión y ayudan a los niños a recuperarse de las experiencias y entornos traumáticos de los que pueden haber venido. ACH capacita y apoya a los padres de crianza temporal a fondo para ayudar a los niños a sanar mientras sus padres biológicos trabajan con las agencias para recuperar el enfoque y prepararse para la reunificación. Si un tribunal determina que eso no es posible, entonces buscamos la adopción para encontrar al niño como una familia para siempre ”.

ACH tiene varios próximos eventos virtuales y presenciales de adopción y cuidado de crianza temporal Meet & Greet:

  • Martes 31 de agostoS t, 12-1 pm (reunión de Zoom)
  • Martes 7 de septiembreth, De 6 a 7 pm (en persona)
  • Jueves 16 de septiembreth, De 6 a 7 pm (en persona)

Aquellos interesados en aprender más sobre el cuidado de crianza y / o la adopción están invitados a unirse a estas sesiones informativas gratuitas. Los participantes pueden registrarse en línea o llamando al 817.335.HOPE (4673). 

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